Wonderful day turned sour

Just when I thought all was going well. I was having a great happy go lucky day and as soon as I commented on my facebook about what a great day I was having, chaos broke loose. Katheryn was so helpful today after school. She was picking up toys that the boys had left lying around and I thought to myself that I needed to take her out more often. I had taken her to see Hannah Montanna over the weekend and we did some shopping at the mall and had lunch at Panera Bread. Last night she even cleaned her room. For sure I thought she was just being helpful. When the chaos broke loose, Brian started screaming that he needed Katheryn to help him in the basement and when she didn't go to him, he screamed some more and Katheryn yelled back. Then Katheryn started hiding from Ethan because he too wanted to be with her. Katheryn was a little exhausted from it all and finally found me. I told her thank you for helping me by picking up the toys and then she said, "You're welcome, can I have a dollar?" I looked at her with my mommy eyes and she continued to say, "I picked up the basement." My happy day went sour all in an instant. The screaming from Brian, the loudness of Ethan and then Katheryn asking me for money. She unfortunately got the brunt of my anger. I shared with her how upset I was that she would ask me for money after the great weekend we had. So I told her I would give her a dollar if she would give me a dollar for each load of laundry of hers that I did, for every meal I cooked, for every time I took her to dance class, for every time she needed clothes, for every time she needed a permission slip signed for a field trip, etc. I think she got the message that she is part of our family and needs to keep some order about her and do what she can to contribute. I'm sure all parents have this conversation with their children. Unfortunately, I'm sure all children quickly forget this conversation immediately following as I know I have. I can't recall it now looking back. :) Well, it's time for me to earn a dollar. Katheryn and Brian both have dance class and we need to head out the door in 5.